Personal growth can attained by the following ways, if you adopt these one at a time into your life, you will feel like a whole new person but in a good way, so take a look.
Learn From Failures:
We hear a lot of success stories, we learn from them. But don’t only focus on them because they don’t entirely teach you how to grow. The best stories you can learn from our failure stories. These stories tell you what it’s like when you fall, they show you the real image of a struggle. They show you how to be on the ground and still fight back. These are the real stories that teach how to grow, how to get back up on your feet after a fall. They teach you that you will fall many times before you learn from those failures. These stories are the ones that motivate us to strike back harder. So learn from failure stories, because they show you the reality. Success stories are about the brighter and better picture, they don’t say how many times do you have to fail before you become successful.
Follow Your Own Way:
Don’t follow people, don’t follow the crowd. Follow your own way. Make your own way. If what you love is not followed by the world, let them be, you go follow what you love. If the world is taking right way, but what you love is on the left, you turn left. Never settle for what everyone is doing because they are just following each other and trying to cope up with each other to survive life, and not live it. Why waste the only chance you have at life? Why not use it in something useful like doing what you love to do. You will be much content with your life if you follow your way and choose to do what you love. You will never find peace and happiness by following the footsteps of those people who have been following the footsteps of people before them and so on. All inventors came up with great innovations by following their way when the word told them it was a mistake.
Chase Your Vision:
If you have a vision, a dream. Don’t think twice but chase it. If people tell you that your dream seems impossible, ignore them. Focus on your vision, do what you have to do to chase your dream, and success will start following you. So start investing your time, dedication, determination and hard work into your dream, to make it come true, and you will find that as you give it your best by working for it, success will follow you. So chase your vision. Never think that it is impossible because nothing is.
Always be confident. Always have faith in your abilities that you can do it.
Whatever the task is, if you make your mind about being confident, you will start to be confident. Once you move the barrier in your mind that is stopping you from being confident, you will see it in your actions that you have become confident. It takes nothing but courage to be confident. And for your personal growth, your confidence is much needed. You have to be courageous enough to face any situation with bravery and confidence.
Listen To People:
Growing does not only mean you being older by age, but by mentality. And one of the best things you can do for your personal growth is to be a good listener. Listen to people, hear them out. Don’t pretend listening, try understanding them and their situations. In life, you will come across many new people at every stage, they will all have something to say, listen to them and understand them. Learn from their stories, help them if they need it, and you will see a better change in yourself by listening to others and seeing life through their lenses, you will experience a whole new world.
Personal growth starts with you. It starts with you taking care of yourself.
Taking care of both mental and physical health. Love yourself. Learn to love the parts of you that you think are flawed, the parts you don’t like, the scars if you have any, the pain inside you, acknowledge and use it in your growth. Self love is the first love you should have, because unless and until you don’t love yourself, you will never be able to love someone else entirely. You will not be able to give them the love they deserve because you didn’t acknowledge your worth. So if you want to grow, learn to love yourself. Don’t think it’s selfish, taking care of your own mental and physical health is not selfish at all.
Being curious is not a bad thing. It shows how you have a willful mind that wants to wander for answers. You have questions which you want them to be answered. So ask questions when you have any. Embrace your curiosity. Ask questions whenever you have them, be it all time. It will increase your knowledge.
Learn New Things:
Like curious to know and asking questions. You will learn new things. You are never too old to learn new things. Make it your habit to learn wherever you are, this will expand your horizon. Broaden your vision. But whenever you learn, always teach others. Try to pass on your learning to others whenever needed to. This will help you in your personal growth.
To grow is to know the value and worth of everything. You should know the value of time. It the most valuable thing in the world because it never waits, not can be brought back. So learn to never waste time, grow up to be always on time. You will have personal growth if you not only value you r time but others as well. In this way you will earn their trust by being responsible and responsibility is the sign of growth.
Avoid Wasting Time On Your Phone:
This one’s for utilizing your time in something productive. Whether you are at work or college etc, if you are busy, focus on your work. Use your phone only for calling. We all know we waste a lot of time on our phones, while we gain nothing out of it. It is better if we put it to good use like reading, or learning about new things than such scrolling throw some memes and judging other people while comparing yourself to them. If you only use your phone when needed to, you will quit all these petty habits and grow mentally.
Age does not make you mature, your habits, manner, mentality makes your mature. If you have any other ways to grow than these, let us know in the comments down below.